Showing posts with label music. Show all posts
Showing posts with label music. Show all posts

Saturday, May 17, 2025

Playing Around* 8


As usual, I'm an anomaly.  

I enjoy making music for making music's sake.  I sing my songs, though I'm not sure anyone listens to them.  There is no CD sales, gigging, tours, or money making in my future with my adequate skills.  I don't have that POV.  It seems money takes the fun out of making music.

An audience of grateful listeners are far and few between.  I hardly get feedback from my fellow/she-fellow musicians.  I've learned to take in cutting remarks and understand most people are rude, unable to communicate except by put-downs.  It's an energy vampire thing and inversely they are stealing my energy, so I may have 'left it all on the court', so to speak, and he/she is munching on the leftovers.  A back-handed compliment, but a compliment nonetheless.  I do get kind compliments from people, just enough to blow up my ego tire. 

Constructive criticism is welcome if it's not picayune stuff (like your guitar wasn't in tune, lol).  I'm new to performing, though hardly nervous anymore.  Open mics mostly, I'm getting accustomed to being around The Performer, how annoying they can be, only balanced by their talents and fun they bring.  I've seen and heard some amazing singing and playing people bring to share.  I'm patient with the beginner and always offer positive support.  When theater surrounds the music, it's a horse of a different color. Neurotic Ego showcases; End result, Rock Star wanna-be. I'd like to think I'm there for the song and let it sell itself.

I've always been the guy at the party that pointed out the turd in the punchbowl.  I've been bringing a minority opinion into a hostile audience for a long time.  Large groups of stupid people don't scare me, dangerous as they may be.  Most people aren't even in the same room with you.  Afterwards, if I do find someone to discuss what I was singing about, they don't get it... or don't want to talk about it.  Avoidance, it's what we do.  Most seem to want familiarity and nostalgia songs by a walking/talking jukebox.  My motivations is to be heard, not so much to hit my Like button.  

I'll continue to sing my songs.  It brings me joy, if no one else.

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Tuesday, January 23, 2024

Playing Around* 7

 
MORE SELTZER, PLEASE!!!

It seems to me the entire population is embracing and submitting to Death.  In different elevated states of misery, the obese, the neurotic and depressed, the sick in so many ways, resent life.  They complain about existence as a bonding ritual. 'It's Too Hot, It's Too Cold'... constantly.  They wear jewelry of crystal skulls. Do you know more contented people or closet alcoholic/television addicts?   Everyone seems to want to deny this existence together, acting like lousy house guests, gadgets and chemicals to take the mind somewhere else.  Anywhere but here.

I was in line at a music store waiting my turn.  There were 7 people in the space - all looking at their cell phones.  Creativity is dead in America. Everyone, but me and the counter guy TCB, was there as a consumer.  When I asked anything about playing acoustic music, Celtic or song circles, people playing music together, you know what I got - what I get Everywhere - about Everything  -"I dunno".  In a sizable city population of Green Bay, WI there is no music being played, as far as I can tell.  Still searching. I assumed I was in Music Central.

People have left my Realm.  They have walked into their cell phones and rudely, intend to be in my presence but succeed to ignore me. In a music store with 8 other people, no one could, would or want to talk about any phase of music, but begrudgingly. I had one guy laughing telling him about playing for people and how unnerving it is to have them just blank stare at me.  His response? "I'm one of those people", and told me he plays guitar for his wife and child, that's it.  I find that weird, to not share with the world music you create.  With a song circle you could gain confidence, I told him. I received The Stare.

People are different.  They have changed.  All seem to have lost any personality, all fearfully, miserably internalizing.  I have been observing and chronically. No one sings, no one dance, no one puts seltzer down their pants.  A dark enchantment has settled over the land. 

The general population is not in my fishbowl. It has been a 4 year long episode of Twilight Zone. There's a slow train coming around the bend.

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Friday, June 30, 2023

Playing Around* 2


1) My home is decorated with armless chairs I found on the side of the road with sign "FREE" attached.

2) I built a small music stage in the backyard. There has been occasions but not as many as I would like.

3) I moved to the most un-musical county in the country.

Jerry Lee from Memphis, Tennessee

4) I'll play with a second mic standing alone. This is for karaoke people.

5) Last week at the coffeehouse was a bust. The memory of having the baby fascinated by my music was worth the trip.

6) The musicians I have met widely seem to base their value on the Tips measurement per performance, not so much on talent.


7) I will admit folks are quietly very gracious tippers.

8) Sr. Amelia speaking of diction: Use your teeth, lips and tongue. This bit of Catholic education helps my singing and I must remind myself often.

9) Remember Elvis's Comeback Concert? It was a song circle. Better than sex. Been a long time for either one.


10) No more bluegrass festivals. I do not want the company of gawking people that make themselves ugly in so many ways. Makes those toothless country hicks on stage look classy.

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Thursday, December 26, 2019

Doc Pomus*


I like reading biographies and music biographies in particular. I enjoy a life’s story of people living by their wits and talents. This book about Jerome Felder, aka Doc Pomus, was extremely well done, not fawning but respectful of a man through difficult circumstances succeeded in providing the soundtrack of my youth. Doc Pomus had a huge influence on popular music in America for over fifty years, and today his songs are present at many social functions, concerts and wherever singer and musicians congregate. 

You have to admire the tenacity of a person dealing with cards life has dealt, and it’s not a good hand. Born first generation Jewish parents, in 1930’s New York, he contracted polio at an early age. Jerome, in his bedroom with limited mobility, immersed himself in rhythm and blues records, notably Big Joe Turner, and as a 14 yr old, unknown to his parents, made his blues shouting debut at a Harlem nightclub afternoon jam session. He was well received and so inspired; he created a persona of Doc Pomus and worked for little pay in the music halls, nightclubs and dive bars of Harlem, Bed-Stuy, Grenwich Village and New York at large, as well as Newark, NJ. He was on the same stage as many of greats of Jazz regularly thru the late 40’s and 50’s. 


He wrote a blues song, Lonely Avenue, and it was recorded by Ray Charles, sparse with limited accompaniment, as Ray insisted. He sensed the words were the story and needed no additional flash. The publishing rights brought in much needed small royalty checks and Doc started to consider a career as a songwriter. He teamed up with his younger cousin, pianist Mort Shuman, got an office in the Brill Building where composition of American popular music was centered. Their timing was perfect as the rise of rock and roll exploded and singing talent from South Philadelphia (Fabian, Connie Francis, Bobby Darin, etc.) were provided teen age angst love songs like “Why Must I Be A Teenager In Love”. They wrote for Elvis – “Little Sister”, “Marie’s the Name of His Latest Flame”, “Mess of Blues”, "Suspicion" and many more. But their songs were best presented by the Ben E. King and the Drifters with “This Magic Moment” and “Save the Last Dance for Me” - a song about his wedding night. The songbook of Pomus/Shuman is filled with recognizable standards still being sung and played today. 

While youthful rock and roll was their bread and butter for many years, it tended to dry up quickly with the appearance of singer/songwriters and the Bob Dylan character who proclaimed “I killed Tin Pan Alley’. The next twenty years were not that swell for Doc. 

Through perseverance and his personality he managed to swoon Willi Burke, an aspiring actress soon to be a star on Broadway. For several years they lived a suburban lifestyle, raising two children. As Mort started to stay more and more in Europe and the commute into Manhattan too much, Doc stayed near the Brill in the Forrest Hotel holding court in the lobby with the underclass, the ruffians and colorful characters NYC has to offer, including Rodney Dangerfield. The record and music business was changing rapidly, too rapidly for Doc’s sensibilities. Never holding onto a buck for too long, he found trouble when the IRS came calling, then Willi filed for divorce and the money started drying up. He moved around finding cheaper and cheaper residence, hosting high stake poker games to pay the bills. He had a way to find a large support group, including his new love, Shirlee, who stayed with him to the end. It grew platonic and she married and had children, but she remained a dear friend and loyal. 

With Bruce Springsteen recording “Viva Las Vegas” and other artists re-discovering the voluminous songbook of Pomus/Shuman money picked up in the 80’s. He started to get regular projects like a full album of songs for Cher and a partnership with Dr. John who recorded many of their collaborations. He helped the young Bette Midler and took an active interest in the career of Willy DeVille. He grew into quite the ‘karactah’ visiting music clubs nightly around the city. He founded the Rhythm and Blues Foundation recovering lost royalties to long ago singers and performers, notably helping his idol Big Joe Turner. 

After decades of cigarette smoking, he succumbed to lung cancer in 1991. Jerome Felder's last words to his family and friends surrounding his bedside were “thank you.” A profound life was well documented in this book and to Alex Halberstadt, I also say, thank you. for chronicling the life of a hard working artist, a man who triumphed over life's adversities and made the world a richer and sweeter place.

Thursday, September 2, 2010

So Much Pollution



Know What Is Around You:

Mr. Vincent was a professional musician for 7 years and has a very nice collection of guitars along with a wonderful Yamaha keyboard. He has had a passionate love of music since age 6 -- while most children had a TV for a baby sitter, he had a radio -- and controlled that dial!